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Stephen Port's parents tell of their shock as their son is accused of murder

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The elderly father of a man accused of using gay dating websites to target and kill four victims has said he and his wife "just can't take much more". Stephen Port, 40, is accused of drugging and murdering four young men before dumping three of their bodies in and around the churchyard at St Margaret's Church, North Street, Barking.

Today his father, year-old Albert, said he and his wife Joan, 74, were trying not to think about the allegations faced by their son because of their old-age. Speaking from his home in Dagenham, he said: "We're trying not to think about it because of our ages. We just can't take it. The less we know the better. We have got to carry on. They don't want to bother us because we are elderly. We just want to keep out of it.

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That's life ain't it? Mr Port said he had visited his son on Sunday night, when he took money and books as well as a magazine on space, but hasn't spoken to him since. Forty-year-old Port, of Cooke Street, Barking, in east London, appeared in court on Monday charged with four counts of murder and four counts of administering a poison with intent to endanger life or inflict grievous bodily harm.

It is alleged he gave the men large amounts of the party drug GHB which they overdosed on. He then dumped their bodies, it is claimed. Asked how he felt about the four young men who lost their lives, his father Mr Port said: "I don't know nothing about that, I don't think about that at all.

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Years later, that was precisely how he described the difficulties that were beginning to occur in his relationship with Peter Wyngarde. Wyngarde had become something of a Svengali to him, toughening Alan up on the business side of acting, advising him on what to read, and introducing him to influential producers and writers. Alan looked to him for advice on just about everything, but he told friends that he feared being overwhelmed - and resented his own passivity and willing subordination.

But to be fair to Wyngarde, at least some of the shadows were cast by Alan's own carefully created public image, which was necessarily at odds with his private-life, leaving him full of inner tension-and doubts about his future. It was not until Bates was nearly years-old that he began to consider how he might end his relationship with Peter and start looking for his own place to live in.

But, now, his life took another unexpected turn with the entry of three powerful and highly influential women. One of them was Joanna Pettet, who played his love interest in a Broadway production of the play Poor Richard in With huge excitement she accepted Alan's invitation to join him for a holiday on the Caribbean island of St Thomas - but it did not go quite as she had expected.

Joanna tells how Alan had booked one room for them at a simple but romantic hotel, where, on the first night of their holiday, they dined quietly before retiring. She was too nervous to ask if something was suddenly wrong, "and I was not old enough or sophisticated enough to be aggressive with him - it just didn't seem right. Then we heard the couple next door making violent love, and Alan got out of bed and turned on the air-conditioner, to counter the noise.

The holiday ended as chastely as it had begun, without any discussion on the subject.

Joanna was understandably confused, but Alan was so genial and amusing that her love for him was undimmed. I didn't ever want to lose his friendship. But she was not the only attractive blonde competing for his attention. Just before Christmas that year, a group of young women who worked for American magazines appeared outside the theatre to ask for Alan's autograph. As they were leaving, one of the girls turned and invited him to a party at her apartment, and asked if she could interview him for Time magazine.

Over the next few days, he found himself unable to put from his memory this pale, slender blonde. With her warm and adoring gaze, and British accent, she seemed to him lonely and needy of comfort, despite her liveliness. To Alan, such vulnerability was always irresistible.

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The girl's name was Victoria Ward. She had a taste for shocking-pink mini-skirts - the shorter the better - and was, in the words of one contemporary, "a very sexy girl who attracted men easily". At the party in her apartment - to mark her 25th birthday - Alan quickly found himself the object of her undivided attention. Just like Joanna Pettet, however, Victoria found him frustratingly elusive. Alan seemed uneasy, apparently on the alert for a telephone call or the arrival of a friend. He told Alan he was leaving, and the latecomer and I had a staring match which I couldn't maintain. A few days later, Alan rang Victoria to thank her for the evening and said nothing about his hasty departure.

Strolled back through freezing streets, my hand in Alan's pocket. But with Alan Bates, things were never simple when it came to romance, and there was another twist in the story to come. Staying in Rome in the spring of , to record a TV drama, he met a strikingly attractive Israeli dance student named Yardena Harari.

They went to dinner, then to a nightclub. That June, he took her to a Beatles concert, then flew her off to the South of France, where they checked into the fashionable and romantic Colombe d'Or Hotel. As before, however, sharing a room was not a prelude to anything sexual. Yardena was left as confused as Joanna and Victoria. Everything changed after Alan persuaded Yardena to accompany him back to England and they arrived at the flat in Kensington where, officially, he was still living with Peter Wyngarde.

Alan had embarked on what may well have been his most enduring and passionate sexual relationship with a woman. He didn't answer, and to this day I don't know. Yardena returned to Israel, and when she came back to England later in the year she found Alan's romantic feelings for her - such as they had been - much changed. All his energies were once again concentrated on acting.

Astonishingly, through all of this, Alan had never confronted Peter Wyngarde about their relationship, and never formally acknowledged or discussed with him what he had told a few friends - that he wanted to terminate all contact between them. A natural peacemaker, he tried to avoided confrontations whenever he could, especially in personal relationships, expecting things to sort themselves out of their own accord.

The result, according to friends, was that he often unintentionally made situations more difficult, and ultimately more distressing, both for himself and others. Finally, on a visit to their Kensington flat to collect the last of his clothes, he blurted out to Wyngarde: "I think I should get married. At that point, having cooled towards Yardena, he had no intention of marrying anyone. His rejection of Peter, however, was clear. I would direct plays for him to act in, and we would have a wonderful joint career together.

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